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A new statistics from the East Africa’s demographic and health survey points to something we may all be familiar with through sketches or stories: the longer a girl stays in school, the longer she is likely to delay marriage, and the fewer children she is likely to have.
The conclusion form the survey is simply: In most all African societies, education is the number one factor that will influence when a girl gets married and when she starts having children.
Early marriage and childbirth have been linked to higher maternal mortality, as young mothers are more likely to die during childbirth; and with higher fertility rates, as women who start having children young tend to have many children
Samples Demographic Housing Survey shows that the median age of marriage increases with advances in education —
Kenya
Girls who have no education will get married at about 17.5 years
Girls with at least a secondary education will tie the knot at 22.4 years, almost a five year delay.
Tanzania,
Girls who have never been to school will be married by 17.7 years of age, but
Girls who have a secondary education or higher are likely to postpone marriage till 23.1 years.
Women Mauritania aer taking substances to help gain weight
Nouakchott (Mauritania) – While force-feeding of young girls is waning in Mauritania, particularly in urban areas, many girls and women are voluntarily using high-tech and dangerous methods aimed at achieving the corpulent form long a status symbol in the country.
“Force-feeding by way of physical abuse is practically a thing of the past; it is generally limited to remote rural areas,” said Zeinabou Mint Taleb Moussa, head of the NGO Mauritanian Association for Mothers’ and Children’s Health (AMSME). “But young women wanting to gain weight and [resorting to extreme measures to do so] is indeed a reality.”
Mauritanians told IRIN of recent cases in which young women died from taking drugs – including products formulated for livestock – to gain weight.
While aesthetic standards are slowly shifting and some women refuse the destructive practice of forcing weight gain, traditionally in Mauritania a plump figure on a woman signifies wealth and well-being. For generations families force-fed their daughters litres of cow’s or camel’s milk daily in part to improve their marriage prospects.
A proverb of Mauritania’s Moor ethnic group says: “The woman occupies in her man’s heart the space she occupies in his bed.”
But in recent years, despite health warnings, some girls and women are voluntarily turning to other methods, like taking cortisone products – including one designed to make cattle gain weight; appetite-inducing syrups; and psychotropic medicines.
“Some months ago, my cousin went to the village to prepare for marriage,” said an AMSME member who requested anonymity. “This preparation includes fattening up, and she died from an overdose of drugs designed to make one gain weight.”
In another case, a young girl in a slum in the capital Nouakchott recently died after taking drugs designed for cattle, said Souleimane Cherif, president of the Mauritania pharmacists’ association.
Social researcher Mohameden Ould Ekahe said one of the animal drugs women take “to self-fatten” is locally known as ‘dregdreg’ – a Hassaniyya word meaning a shaking of the heart, for one of the health hazards it can pose. “They want to meet the standard of a society in love with fat women,” he said.
The products are easy to obtain and that is part of the problem, pharmacist Cherif told IRIN.
“Regulations are not strictly applied mostly because of the profits for some in the medical sector,” he said. “Furthermore the state’s resources are relatively limited. Still the authorities have made efforts in the past three years, including removing certain products from the markets.”
Despite these efforts and a 2010 law stipulating harsher penalties for irregular drug sales, anyone can buy the products in markets and pharmacies. It is difficult to say how much money is spent on such products for these purposes, as much of the trade is on the black market.
Many women also request birth control pills just for the potential weight-gain, and appetite-inducing syrups, said Anna Fall, a midwife at a health centre in a lower-class neighbourhood of Nouakchott.
The push to pack on extra weight carries the threat of cardiovascular disease, kidney failure, diabetes and high blood pressure, said Mohammed Lemine Ould Cheikh, the health centre’s head doctor. “Most women don’t know that these medicines are dangerous; otherwise they wouldn’t take them. It’s a question of literacy.”
Taleb Moussa said it is not all down to ignorance; some girls trying to put on weight dismiss the dangers of misusing drugs. “I was in a pharmacy one day and I saw some girls buying these products. I told them it’s dangerous; they laughed and went about their business.”
Indeed, social pressure and long-held standards persist.
Marième Diallo, 53, was force-fed as an adolescent. Her two daughters, 14 and 19, are slim and refuse to gain weight; Diallo said she will not force them, and for that she is derided by friends. “Recently my neighbour came round, telling me it’s not normal, it’s dishonourable for my family that my daughters are thin. She wanted to take them to the village to make them gain weight.”
Many men still see size as a measure of beauty. “For some men it is still humiliating to have a skinny wife,” AMSME coordinator Khadija Sakho told IRIN. “They are ashamed to have their friends come round.”
(Source: UN Integrated Regional Information Networks (IRIN)
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Flirting is a form of human interaction between two people, expressing a sexual or romantic interest. It consists of conversation, body-language or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated.
The origin of the word flirt is obscure. The Oxford-English-Dictionary (first edition) associates it with such onomatopoeic words as flit and flick, emphasizing a lack of seriousness.
On the other hand, it has been attributed to the old French “Conter fleuretteâ€, which means “to (try to) seduce†by the dropping of flower leaves, that is, “to speak sweet nothings.â€
This expression is no longer used in French, but the English Gallicism to flirt has made its way and has now become an Anglicism.
Flirting is often used as a means of expressing interest and gauging the other person’s interest in courtship, which can develop into a long-term relationship. Alternatively, it may simply be a prelude to casual-sex with no deep relationship.
In other situations, it may be done simply for immediate entertainment, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious or it may be viewed as “cheating†if the person is already in a romantic relationship with someone else.
People who flirt may speak and act in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the relationship (or to the amount of time the two people have known each other), without actually saying or doing anything that breaches any serious social norms. One way they accomplish this is to communicate a sense of playfulness or irony.
Flirting may consist of stylized gestures, language, body language, postures and physiologic signs. Among these are:
1. Eye contact, batting eyelashes
2. “Protean†signals, such as touching one’s hair
3. Casual touches such as a woman gently touching a man during conversation
4. Smiling suggestively
5. Winking
6. Sending notes, poems, or small gifts
7. Flattery
8. Online chat is a common modern tactic, as well as other one-on-one and direct messaging services
9. Footsie, the “feet under the table†practice
10. Teasing
11. Chance meeting
While some of the subconscious signs are universal across cultures.