Overcoming Scarcity Amidst Abundance

“The hardest thing to see is what is in front of your eyes”

-Goethe

Scarcity amidst abundance

In the last three weeks I have been trying to organise seminars on “Moringa Oleifera”, popularly known as wonder plant, for secondary school teachers in Osun state, Nigeria. “What is Moringa?”  And why secondary school teachers?

Moringa, I discovered recently, contains 7 times the vitamin C of oranges, 4 times the vitamin A of carrots, 4 times the calcium of milk, 3 times the potassium of banana and 2 times the protein of yoghurt. Besides its nutritional value, it can save millions of lives and it could be used to generate bio-gas, among others. As a result of its enormous benefits to mankind, I decided to share what I know with others so that our society can be a better place to live in. So I made up my mind to first take this money-spinning idea to my former constituency – to teachers. I taught for six years before I moved on to other things in life. I was however shocked to find out that the way it was when I was still teaching, is still the way it is now. Despite the immense opportunities in Moringa that my people in “chalk and talk” business could tap into, they bombarded me with litany of complaints such as ‘we don’t have money’, ‘the money you are charging for the seminar is too much’ and so on. You may want to ask how much is the money? Just $6 to turn their lives round! My heart bled because those who are supposed to know are actually ignorant of what could fetch them additional income. Those we expect so much from cannot see what is right in front of them!

There is no doubt that we are blessed in Africa. But we seem blind to a lot of opportunities around us simply because of our scarcity mentality. We think of what we do not have rather than taking advantage of what we have. We complain we do not have money, thinking that it is only money we need to make money. We have forgotten that we cannot rise above the level of our thinking. If we think we do not have then definitely we may not have. Besides Moringa, there are other opportunities for us that we can take advantage of in Africa, but we still complain we do not have when we live amidst abundance. How then do we overcome this scarcity mentality that has tethered us down for a long time?

The first step to take is to renew our thoughts daily. What we think about, we become. Who we are outside is a reflection of who we are inside. If you see yourself as poor person inside there is no way you can be rich outside. Most civil servants in African societies more often than not see themselves as poor, and their appearances reflect their state of mind from time to time. So, to overcome scarcity mentality, you must consciously renew your thoughts. Rid your yourself of negative thought and thoughts of scarcity. Think abundance. After all, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

Desires and confessions are intertwined; they are inseparable. While many have done their desires a lot of good through the words of their mouths, others have short-changed themselves with their confessions. You cannot be a poor person within and be rich without. You cannot be a gloomy person within and be cheerful without. What a man will be on the outside, he must first be in the inside. You must speak power to your desires which first exist as thoughts in your mind.

But beyond the renewal of your thoughts and your confessions, you must also put life to your words through action. Nothing moves unless we move. We may continue to complain we do not have if we do not activate what we have in our minds. This brings to mind the story of a man who lives in my new neighbourhood. I met this man sometime in 2008. He had a life-threatening experience during the Modakeke-Ife internecine war in 2000. He lost everything he had laboured for in the war – cars, houses, businesses! The only thing he had left was his life. This man, because of his pastoral calling, was fond of confessing positive things without taking any concrete actions. The result? He kept on complaining of lack! About a month ago, this man approached me for counsel. I had to be down-to-earth with him. I told him that what he needed was to take a concrete step. I advised him to sell one of his burnt houses to start a business. He did what I advised him to do and today he is a poultry farmer. He does not complain about not having what to eat again. He is gradually recovering what he lost during the war. It is not sufficient to confess positive thoughts alone; we need to back them up with action.

You may be thinking that taking action is not easy. I know. But it is possible to start with what you have from where you are. It is just a matter of starting small. It is little drops of water that make a mighty ocean. We may remain at the level of scarcity if we do not want to begin small. It may interest you to note that I started rabbit rearing with just 2 rabbits – 1 male and 1 female, but today I have a big rabbit farm. We do not just sell live rabbits, but also sell processed rabbits! What you do not start, cannot grow.

To overcome scarcity mentality therefore, we must consciously practise the following tips:

  1. Renew your thoughts daily; avoid negative thoughts as much as possible and think possibilities.
  2. Take a step beyond positive thinking; take action; and
  3. If you think taking action is not that easy, start what you have thought about in a small way from where you are.

With the steps above, you will begin to sing a new song. No more scarcity mentality; you will begin to see the immense opportunities in Africa. You are not created to lack; you are created to have everything in abundance.

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How to Give Meaning to a Clueless Life

The greatest tragedy of life is for people  to live and die and never come out of themselves, to never realise the possibilities hidden within them. Each time I come across people with huge potentials and who seem to be clueless about what to do with their innate abilities, my heart bleeds.  To give meaning to your life you must live it on purpose. There is nothing as dangerous as living a life that has no bearing. Such a life will definitely be very boring!

How can you then give meaning to a clueless life?

The way out is to discover who you are. When you know who you are it becomes easy to live a purpose-driven life. You would have discovered the purpose for which you are in this world.

So I want you to take time to ruminate over the following and answer them as truthfully as possible:

  1. Do I love where I am today?
  2. Would I like to continue to do the kind of job or the kind of activity that I do today when I come of age?
  3. Am I using my natural talent to do what I do today?
  4. Will I like to be the best of what I am doing today?
  5. What one thing do I need to do to make the greatest possible change in my life?
  6. Who is doing something closest to my dream?
  7. What area will I like to make a positive impact?
  8. What will I like to be remembered for?
  9. What mind-blowing accomplishment will I want my name to be associated with?
  10. What field will I like my name to define?
  11. What do I do best with the least effort?
  12. What kind of help do people frequently ask from me?
  13. What is that area people show me the greatest respect?
  14. What can I do for fun and still earn money?
  15. What irritates me the most when it is poorly done?
  16. I usually lose track of time when ……………………
  17. Which of all the human needs touches my heart most?
  18. I am the solution, what is the problem?
  19. Who has this problem?
  20. Which books, magazines or discussions interest me the most?

I am convinced that if you can consciously and truthfully answer the questions above, you will discover your potentials and know exactly who you are. With this, you will have succeeded in giving meaning to your life, even if you had no clue before.

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How to Start Over With a Positive Attitude

There is no limitation to what you can achieve in life. The only limitation to achieving great feats in life is the one set by you. Therefore, no matter what you are going through; no matter where you are at the moment, be admonished that it is not yet over. There is always a chance to start over. If you have failed on any project, there is good news for you: the word “fail” simply means ‘First Attempt in Learning”. You can start all over again. The fact that you are alive is an indication that you still have a second chance. Hear Helen Keller “when one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed-door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us”

What this implies is that you do not need to continuously brood over what has happened as you have no power over it. You must be aware that what has been done cannot be undone. You can begin again when you see any setback in life as a learning process and press on with a positive attitude. There is nothing that happens to man in life that God does not know about. This thus suggests that whatever happens to us has a purpose and nothing happens by accident.

If you allow this to sink into your system, you will begin to see that the story of a man does not always unfold like a mathematical calculation on the principle that two and two make four; sometimes in life they make five or even minus three, and sometimes the black-board topples down in the middle of the sum, leaving the teacher with the black eye! We must therefore not lose sight of the fact that obstacles are there to toughen and prepare us for the challenges ahead.

This realization is possible depending on how you view any predicament you find yourselves in. Do you see the half-filled cup of water as “half-empty” or “half-full”? The way you describe such a cup of water will go a long way to depict your outlook on life. Imbibe a positive attitude to life and you will reach higher altitude and change your life for ever.
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How to Reach Higher Altitude With Positive Attitude

Your attitude determines your altitude

In a world characterized by upheavals, crisis, disappointments, depression and dejection, there is a need for every individual that wants to live, have fun and ultimately take the rightful place in destiny to be self-motivated and self-encouraged. This is because I have come to realize that to cross over from “mourning” to “morning”, it takes “U”, letter that distinguishes the two homophonic words in the English language. Whenever you are faced with any challenges in life, buck ultimately stops with you. The decision you take at any time determines where you will be the next moment and what happens to you subsequently.  It is therefore important to make informed decisions in life. In all these, a positive attitude in life is vital for higher altitude.

In order for you to make decisions in life, you may need to learn either from the mistakes of others or their stories. It is usually very costly to learn from one’s own mistakes. The mistakes or the stories of others help tremendously in determining the attitudes you will put forth when confronted with similar challenges. Attitude, yes attitude!

When exposed to situations others are confronting, in most cases, our first reaction is “If I were the person, I would have responded this way or that way? More often than not we tend to blame such people, especially if what befalls them is a misfortune. We blame those in power for not performing; we criticize those performing for not doing enough and, disturbingly, we attribute the causes of our misfortunes in life to what others did or did not do. This is the tragedy of the today’s world.

I have, however, discovered that we are where we are not only because of bad leadership, poverty, lack of education, lack of parents, lack of love from others, among other reasons we  may want to adduce, but because of what we do when we are faced with challenges in life. Do we react to situations or respond to them? If you have been reactive, then there is the need for a change. It is vital that you be responsive to situations; you  be positive-minded and see the inherent best even in the worst of situations. This is because even thorns have roses. Where others see difficulties, you must begin to see opportunities. All you need to do is to look within and think beyond. Remember, the future you cannot picture, you cannot capture. And to capture your desired future you must be conscious of the fact that attitude is not just everything, but the ONLY thing. It is your attitude that determines your altitude in life. A positive attitude equals higher altitude.

Check for Part 2 shortly.

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The Power of Taking The First Step

Each passing second, several ideas play out in one’s mind. The human mind conceives numerous ideas that are capable of turning the world around positively within a millisecond. Perhaps this was the reason Napoleon Bonaparte once asserted that “ideas rule the world”. But despite the myriad of ideas that dot our minds daily, several people, especially in Africa still live below poverty level. What could be responsible for this? What makes those that activate their ideas different from those that do not?

In my research I have come to realise that there are actually two categories of people in this world: those who make their dreams happen and those that wait for their dreams to happen. It appears more than 70% of Africans belong to the latter category. We wait more often than not for our dreams to happen. This may be why we seem complacent consuming what others produce. Instead of taking action on at least one out of the multiple ideas that come to mind everyday, we seem comfortable talking about them. But I think we need to begin to walk the talk. It is not sufficient to churn out ideas; the ideas become useful when we expedite action on them.

In 2005 when I relocated from Lagos to Ile-Ife in Nigeria, I met a young man who studied Agricultural Science in one of Nigeria’s universities. He spoke to me about the inherent opportunities in snail farming. He spoke glowingly about it that I became interested in it. I launched out immediately. With some used tyres, I bought just 17 snails to commence the business. Before I knew what was happening snail rearing became synonymous with my name in my area. It was after I launched out that I discovered that the young man who told me about it did not even have a single snail. In fact, I became his consultant later. A graduate of Literature-in-English consulting for Agricultural Science graduate on snail rearing. Today, I run a farm where I do not just rear snails, but also chickens, rabbits and a host of other animals. Such was the power of taking the first step!

I believe that if I had been waiting for the dream of rearing snails to happen without making it happen myself, it might have been a mirage! Our society can actually be a better place to live in and we can become shinning examples to others around us if only we can take action on one of the several ideas that come to our mind daily. We need to take the first step in the right direction without nursing fear and every other thing shall follow.

We must know that nothing moves until we move it.

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My African Dream

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‘Dream’ is a natural phenomenon of the human species. This natural process which usually occurs when a person is at deep rest or sleep has a ‘dynamic’ way of relating with humans. Dreams could reveal to an individual a course of event in the future, bring a past memory to light, mystically warn of an impending danger, fills one’s subconscious world with imaginations, and sometimes, dreams could be a reflection of one’s hopes, aspirations or desires in life.

For the purpose of this piece, the last role played by this natural phenomenon will be the focal point; that is, a dream’s role as a reflection of human’s hopes and aspirations or desires in life. My African dream is about my hopes, aspirations and desires for the African continent.

Contemporary literary works have undeniably traced civilization to Africa. Egypt has historically and scientifically been confirmed to be the source of human civilization. Down the ages, the African continent lost its amiable glory to colonialism. Undoubtedly, today, the foundation which laid the glory of modern development in the Western hemisphere, was built by Africans and of course people of other races who labored tirelessly for centuries as slaves under servitude.

Ironically, even after centuries of postslave trade or colonization, most African states are still under the influence of imperialism. Policy formulation and implementation of African nations are subject to national and international treaties and conventions. This is a major reason several nations in Africa today are either economically or politically challenged.

My African Dream examines my hopes, aspirations and desires for the continent under these three parameters: LEADERSHIP, HUMAN RIGHTS and VALUES.

LEADERSHIP– Poor leadership this has been identified by political commentators, the media, academics and individuals as the root cause of Africa’s present position in the global community. Take an analogy of Nigeria, the acclaimed giant of the continent, the sixth-oil producing nation in the world, and an active and leading member of OPEC. Today, an average Nigerian still ‘hunger for water while in the middle of the sea’. Needless to state that the proceeds accrued over the decades from oil have had little or no effect economically on the people.

Leadership in the political arena, especially, has been abused in Africa. An ex-president of an African nation was once quoted in the media as referring to politics as ‘a do or die affair’. That in itself is the driving force or mentality of politicians, especially in Africa. Public office has now become a platform for greedy individuals to enrich themselves to the detriment of the masses. Political office is exploited to abuse and intimidate others and as a lifetime career.

Eschewing the words of Martin Luther King (Jnr.)…

‘I Have a Dream’…………………..

I also have a dream……. ”that Africa will soon experience a revolution that will bring about leaders of national interest, integrity, patriotism, selfless service, amongst other virtues.  I dream of an Africa that will produce notable leaders as exemplified by Barrack Obama (an offspring of Kenya), Nelson Mandela (S/Africa), and Obafemi Awolowo (Nigeria).

I dream of an Africa that will prove that blacks are no different to other races in terms of knowledge, potential, abilities, and expertise.  I have a dream of African with leadership that is seen as ‘idea and philosophy’ globally, and who believe in service devoid of corruption and abuse of power. An Africa that will take the Comity of Nations by surprise, emerging strong in human and infrastructural developments. Leaders who believe that change is the only constant thing in life which must be wholly embraced. An Africa that will live up to the dreams of her founders.

I HAVE A DREAM……………………

HUMAN RIGHTS– Closely associated with leadership is Human Rights abuses in Africa. This comes in various forms; from sexual harassment and molestation, lack of regard to human life and human dignity. Mostly, during civil wars, as was the case in Darfur (Sudan), African women have been victims of sexual abuse in the hands of those meant to protect them. Similarly, those perpetrating the heinous crime of human trafficking have handed over young women to foreign ‘contactors’ to be sexually abused. Innocent and defenseless civilians have been repeatedly assaulted by law enforcement agents due to money not ‘exchanging hands’, or not showing ‘due regard’ to the agents of the government.

I have a dream…………. ”that Africa especially those vested with power and authority will see their privileged office not as a means to exploit and abuse their fellow, but as a means to serve their motherland and fellow Africans in the spirit of Love and Unity”. I HAVE A DREAM…………………………

VALUES– Most of Africa’s treasured values has been lost in recent times to western culture. Values are simply the embodiment of our principles, standards, mores, cultures and believes, entrenched in all spheres of our lives; from religion, education, family, politics and so forth. Values define an individual or group of people from another as much as color differentiates one race from another today. In Africa, for example, our values are expressed in the way and manner we dress, our multilingual languages and dialects, our diet, our cultures and traditions. However, as noted earlier, most of these are best known to be penned on paper about Africa but not expressed in their best to the world. Reasons for this are not far-fetched: African societies are becoming increasingly westernized. The media have also in recent times promoted more of foreign programs to the detriment of locally produced ones. Especially in this age where information is easily available and abundant, the youth population in African societies is increasingly spending time on websites that expose them to information that may not be helpful to them and actually may turn to be harmful.

I have a dream…………….” that African value system will be restored and upheld with pride by Africans home and abroad. That the values with which we are defined as people will refine us. That with our joint effort as Africans, we can take the continent to the point of global recognition

I HAVE A DREAM…………………………

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The Best Time to Start was Yesterday (Part 1 &2 )

Part 1

Procrastination is the thief of time. What should be done today should not be delayed till tomorrow. Today is the tomorrow spoken about yesterday. I know you have several ideas on your mind at the moment. For instance, for quite some time you have been dreaming about starting that business of yours or perhaps it is that your book which you are yet to write. Whatever it is that you have on your mind, you must know that nothing moves unless it is moved. In fact, Newton’s law of motion states that every object will remain in a position of rest unless an external force is applied to it. The external force in this sense is YOU. You need to do something about that idea of yours. You must take the first step. After all, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step in the right direction. So, start now.

Part 2

In Part 1 of this piece, I emphasized the fact that what could be done today should not be delayed till tomorrow. Should you still be at sea with the essence of this article, let me quickly share this experience with you. In January, 2010, I told a colleague about a publisher in Germany. This firm publishes academic works free of charge with royalty paid at the end of the year. While my colleague is yet to come up with a single manuscript as at the time of writing this piece because he keeps on postponing sending his work to the outfit, yours sincerely has published two books already with the firm!

The challenge with my colleague is that he is waiting for “the right time” to publish his masterpiece. My fear for him however is that he does not wait forever. I am certain that several masterpieces are wasting away at the cemeteries because they were never written! In a nutshell, you need to know that no one will celebrate you for what you would have done. You will only be celebrated for what you did. The best time to act on your idea was, indeed, yesterday.

Isaac Oluyi is a motivational writer and speaker based in Nigeria. He speaks and writes on attitude, self-discovery and wealth creation. Isaac is the Administrative Officer at the National Centre for Technology Management at Obafemi Awolowo University.
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Success is a Marathon, Not a Sprint

Success is a Marathon, Not a Sprint
Success is a Marathon, Not a Sprint

Success is a marathon, not a sprint. But many of today’s youth do not know this, or they know but not make it a maxim in running their life race. If we take things easy, and act as purposely and positively as we can, success will surely come our way.

There are rules for success, and one of them is: ‘Never rush’. If you look around you, you will discover that those who have made it to the top are not only those who inherit wealth, fame or name. Yes, wealth, fame, and popular name can open door of opportunities for some folks, but the lack of them, ab initio, does not lock such doors and windows of opportunities either.

If you want to make it in life, as we all make efforts to achieve greater potentials and accumulate better aspirations of life, the rule , ‘never rush’, applies. What do you want to make in life: intellectual progress or social mobility? The best and possibly easiest way to make it in life is to make it slowly but surely.

With this recommendation, I am not saying we should be lackadaisical about life, or that we should sleep off all the twenty-fours and expect miracles to come, what I am saying is that we should organise ourselves, and see our dreams come true one by one.

Remember the scriptural axiom that the battle is neither for the strong nor the race for the swift, but that time and chance happen to them all. In the year 2006, I gave a speech at the orientation event organised by the Student Leadership Development Programme, SLDP, at the University of Ibadan, Nigeria. The coordinator of that novel student programme, who read my modest citation on that day, is today the Chief Economic Adviser to the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. I am talking about

Prof (Mrs) Precious Kassey Garba, a woman of substance; respectful, respected, and respectable scholar and teacher.

Prof. Garba always told us to believe in ourselves, and that no matter how big a challenge could be, determination can melt it. At the event mentioned above, I spoke about why and how the youth can take their destiny in their own hands. I said the youth should always plan their time and time their plan. I said the youth should always choose their friends and make library one of their friends. I reminded the youth about what Prof Adedoyin Soyibo used to tell us, that when you add value to yourself, the distance from your success is reduced by miles. We can make it slowly but surely. Nothing is worth-worrying or worth-rushing about in life.

The biggest god most people worship is money. Money is good but money is not god. How you get is more important. Remember Napoleon Hill, who wrote in Think and Grow Rich that ‘Quick riches are more dangerous than poverty’. What we need most of the time is organised planning, faith, hope, and action, and slowly but surely we shall make it.

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