Soccer Passion in Men

I have observed with keen interest in recent years the level of passion exhibited by men of all ages , status, color et al for soccer. Though I admit being a soccer fan, but cant find my place amongst the myriad of men who seems to live for soccer viz-a-viz their respective club sides. It is a common trend to observe loyalists of a particular club using items and symbols associated with there clubs to identify themselves in public especially following a winning encounter with an opposing side. Sometimes, patriots goes as far as betting with cash or kind to support there club’s victory ahead of a match. No wonder, sports especially soccer has been identified as a ‘tool’ for national and international integration.

Why cant similar or more passion be shown to those you live for, to those you work for, to those you love so much than for soccer,  that which just satisfies your craving for entertainment and adds little or no value to your welfare and those of your family? by Solomon Johnson

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The Big Picture

Mr. Isaac Oluyi, Author and motivational speaker

No one can achieve any worthwhile achievement without seeing the picture ahead. What this implies is that the future you cannot picture you cannot capture it. Everything that we see without is a product of the picture within. What kind of future do you picture in your mind? Are you so limited by your current circumstances that you cannot see beyond your reality now? No matter what you are going through at the moment, the good news is that if you can dream it you can actually achieve it.

As a university undergraduate I had only a pair of trousers and two shirts. The pair of trousers was brown in colour and this afforded me the opportunity to wear it for a long period of time without washing! Anytime I washed it I had to tie a wrapper, with supplication to God that it would not rain. Otherwise, it would be a disaster. Besides this, I also could not afford to buy lecture materials. So I resorted to borrowing reading materials from colleagues. I would read these materials with voracious appetite as I had to return them on time. It was really a life of struggle, toiling and anguish. In all of these however, I never for once saw myself as a failure. I forged ahead like a Trojan as I could see clearly the big picture – The big picture of a better tomorrow, when I will become a solution provider, when what I was going through would be used to encourage others in similar situations. It was such a bright and beautiful tomorrow! Continue reading “The Big Picture”

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Resume Mistakes to Avoid

MSNBC Contributor

You have about 15 seconds to make an impression with your resume. That’s about the amount of time recruiters and hiring managers say they spend with each job seeker’s resume, given the tidal wave of applicants for open positions these days.

As a result, any glaring mistakes can land your resume in the trash bin.

“The wow factor isn’t as important as being precise,” said Ryan Carfley, President and CEO of recruiting firm MRINetwork Personify. But, he added, “even though hiring managers are inundated, you have to stand out, and the only way to do that is with precise examples of achievements, and do it quickly.”

Here’s a rundown of six resume mistakes you’ll want to avoid:

1. Being too vague
One big resume no-no is not getting to the meat of the matter, notes Pennell Locey, a senior consultant at career management and consulting firm Keystone Associates.

This includes focusing only on job responsibilities in your resume and not including specific accomplishments. You’ll get extra minus points for actually using the phrase “responsibilities included,” said Locey.

“A recruiter once told me that [the] phrase immediately raises suspicion, since it can be used as a dodge when you were supposed to deliver something [and] actually didn’t.”

Locey suggests asking yourself what your major accomplishments were, and what you did that made a difference for your employer.

She offers some alternative phrases, such as “streamlined/ initiated a process,” or “maintained compliance at 100%,” or “participated in a fund-raising campaign that delivered X% over plan,” or perhaps “increased website traffic by X%.”

MRINetwork’s Carfley likes to see dollar signs.

The best way to catch a hiring manager’s attention, he said, is to provide something measurable. Don’t say “led the organization in sales.” Instead, say, “Grew revenues from $500,000 to $1 million,” or “reduced project cycle time by two months, saving the company roughly $200,000.”

2. Ignoring the Cyber Age
Many people still look at resumes the same way they did 20 years ago, but with so much communication taking place online these days you have to make your resume tech savvy, experts say.

“Nowadays, since everything is electronic, and electronic ‘contact’ is the first contact you have with HR, headhunters or a corporation, one of the biggest mistakes a person can make is not to include the right keywords for the position you’re applying for, or want,” said Kiki Weingarten, cofounder of career consulting company Atypical Coaching.

She suggests scanning the ads for industries and positions you’re looking into and find the words that are repeated. Those words are a good bet because you can be sure a hiring manager is looking out for them, Weingarten said.

You don’t want to go cyber crazy, though, and go for cyber gimmicks, added Holly Paul, national recruiting leader for Pricewaterhousecoopers. She advises job applicants not to use “emoticons [smiley faces], text message abbreviations or excessive exclamation points.”

Another faux pas is not thinking of what you name your resume document file. If it’s just called “resume,” rename the file to include your name if possible so that a hiring manager can find it easily.

3. Every job but the kitchen sink
In this economy, there’s a good chance a long-term job seeker has a part-time job (or jobs) under his or her belt just to make ends meet. But that doesn’t mean you should include every burger flipping, or retail-selling job you’ve had. Putting too many of those jobs on your resume, especially if they have nothing to do with the job you want, can hurt your chances of landing a new position.

“Resumes are a summary of the most important data,” said Debra Feldman, a job search expert known as the JobWhiz. “In my opinion, a part-time job just to pay the bills would not fall into that category.

“I think if the skills or accomplishments are relevant, then by all means if there is space and it enhances the content, include these achievements,” she added.

However, if you can connect your experience on the sales floor of a home-improvement store to the job you want, then great. I’ve known many high level executives who felt their time on the retail floor, or working behind a counter, helped them better understand how a company worked.

4. Not being your own cheerleader
One of the biggest resume mistakes is “underselling your role or accomplishments,” said Keystone’s Locey.

Job applicants, she continued, “are often worried about appearing to inflate their experiences, or taking credit for something that others also participated in; they often actually under-represent their accomplishments.”

While you don’t want to lay claim to more than you did, “you do want to claim your accomplishments, and make it clear what you actually did,” Locey explained.

So, she advises taking out terms such as “co-led”, “co-created” or similar phrases used multiple times just to show others worked on the same projects as you. And don’t use “assisted”, “supported” or “participated in,” she added. Say what your role on the team actually involved.

Locey said you should ask yourself the following questions:

  • Did I design and deliver a new project in partnership with line managers? What did I do, what was my role?
  • Was my role on the team to track team milestones and ensure the project was on budget/schedule? “Reflect that in what you write in the resume,” she stressed. “It’s more memorable and brings you to life for the reviewer.”

5. Being “cookie-cutter”
I know it’s a pain to tailor every resume to every new job, but if you really want a gig it may be worth the extra work.

Nick Vaidya, managing partner of The 8020Strategy Group, a consulting firm, is sick of seeing the same old, same old.

“I get exasperated looking at resume after resume that talks about what [an applicant] does, or has done,” Vaidya said. “After a while all of the candidates start looking like white penguins on snow. I want the [person] who understands what I need and tailors his or her resume accordingly. I want the yellow penguin.”

And Vaidya downright hates career objectives on resumes, especially if they are “banal and devoid of all ingenuity, integrity and meaning.”

(The best way to provide these three objectives is to simply read the job description and write a resume directed to that, he said.)

6. Forgetting the basics
“Resume mistakes have become smaller and more important with the level of competition out there,” said Steve Langerud, director of professional opportunities at DePauw University and workplace consultant. That’s why you can’t forget the basics when it comes to resume writing.

As a refresher, Langerud offered a list of the basic resume blunders he hears about most often from hiring managers at companies:

  • Poor spelling.
  • Incorrect address or phone number.
  • Font too small to read.
  • Crazy formatting.

“While simplistic, the most effective resumes lead a reader through the material like a good book or magazine article,” Langerud explained. “Every time you change the format with spaces, new fonts, etc., you focus the reader on the format change and away from the content. Keep it simple.”

And Lynne Sarikas, Director of the MBA Career Center at Northeastern University, has her own list of basic things not to include on your resume:

  • Marital status
  • Number of kids
  • Year of graduation (unless it’s recent)
  • Your GPA (unless it’s over 3.7)
  • Your age, a photo and, above all else, lies.

“So much can be verified easily these days,” she said. “If you stretch the truth or embellish it you can quickly be eliminated from consideration.”

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The Basics of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Career Test

As used by many career counselors, the Myers-Briggs test uses the theory of individual personality to narrow down the best career routes for testers. Based on Carl Gustav Jung’s 1921 book, “Psychological Types,” the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator was developed by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter, Isabel Briggs Myers during World War II as a way to help women entering the industrial workforce find the job that would interest them most. Initially just a questionnaire, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator was explained in more detail in a book that was first published in 1962.

The Myers-Briggs test is essentially an implementation of Carl Gustav Jung’s psychological type theory and uses the idea that people function and make decisions based on individual perceptions and judgments. Furthermore, when people perceive things, they will either gather information through their senses or through their intuition. In addition, once they perceive something and gather information, they will either make a judgment based on logic or based on their feelings. Personalities are also categorized based on extraversion or introversion. Jung’s theory was used to create the 16 personality types that make up the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.

Essentially, due to their basic personality differences, people tend to be more interested in particular jobs and careers. The Myers-Briggs test is therefore used to help testers narrow down what careers that may possibly enjoy.

Some sample questions from the test include:

–          When making decisions, do you prefer to first look at logic and consistency (Thinking) or first look at the people and special circumstances (Feeling)?

–          In dealing with the outside world, do you prefer to get things decided (Judging) or do you prefer to stay open to new information and options (Perceiving)?

–          Do you prefer to focus on the outer world (Extraversion) or on your own inner world (Introversion)?

When you are first starting a career or contemplating a career change, taking the Myers-Briggs test can help you realize more about who you are and the things you enjoy doing. After all, aren’t we all interested in finding a job that is enjoyable and rewarding?

Most full versions of the Myers-Briggs test are only administered by professional career counselors for a fee. However, there have been several books written that include career tests that are based on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. These books can be purchased online or at most bookstores. There are also free sample career tests based on the Myers-Briggs test available online. One of which can be found at HumanMetrics.com.

For more information on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, visit The Myers and Briggs Foundation website.

About the Author: Allison Lane owns the website MPA Programs and enjoys writing guest blog posts on various topics of interest.

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Eight (8) Interview Questions You Should Have Prepared for

Before you buy your plane ticked, there are some interview questions you should prepare for because the chances are high that you will have to answer them. I’m going to cover about 10 of them.

1. What Are Your Weaknesses?

This is one of the most commonly asked questions and most dreaded question of all. Don’t jeopardize your chances by listing 101 weaknesses everybody thinks you have. Handle it by minimizing your weakness and emphasizing your strengths. Stay away from personal qualities and concentrate on professional traits: “I am always working on improving my time management skills to be a more effective team leader. I recently bought the book Time Management for Professional by John Doe, which I just started reading.

2. Why Should We Hire You?

Of course you’re at the interview because you want to be hired and think you’re the right candidate for the job. This is the right time to give a reason to be a serious contender for the position. Summarize your experiences: Say something like “With 3 years’ experience working in the drug design and my proven record of three compounds in late state development, I could make a big difference in your company. I’m confident that I’m the right candidate for this position and I would be a great addition to your team.”

3. Why Do You Want to Work Here?

There’s a difference between the applicant who has given a deep thought to the position and the company he’s applying to and the one who’s merely applying because there’s an opening. The interviewer is seeking the former. The interviewer is listening for an answer that indicates you’ve given this some thought and are not sending out resumes just because there is an opening. If you’ve prepared well enough, you might say something like, “Personal values are very important to me. I therefore selected companies whose mission statements are in line with my values and your company was very high on that list and that’s what excites me most this position”.

4. When Were You Most Satisfied in Your Job?

When an interviewer asks this question, he or she wants to know what motivates you. The best way to answer the question is to relate an example of a job situation when you were excited (even when circumstances would dampen others’ spirit). This will give the interviewer an idea of your preferences.

5. What Are Your Goals?

Note that sometimes these questions are asked to determine whether your career goals fit into their business expectation, whether you’re someone who’s coming to stay or just using the job as a stepping stone. Sometimes it’s best to split this into short-term and intermediate goals rather than locking yourself into the distant future or just the short-term goal. For example, “My immediate goal is to get a job in a growth-oriented company. My long-term goal will depend on where the company goes, so if I get hired for this position, in the next few years, I plan to learn as much as possible about your company so I may know what role I can in helping you achieve your goals.”

6. Why Did You Leave (Or Why Are You Leaving) Your Job?

If you’re unemployed, state your reason for leaving in a positive context: “I managed to survive two rounds of corporate downsizing, but the third round involved an outsourcing of my entire team’s activities and so we all had to lose our jobs.”

If you are employed, focus on what you want in your next job: “After three years in my current position, I made the decision to look for a company that is team-focused, where I can add my experience and I thought this opening was a perfect match for me.”

7. What Salary Are You Seeking?

There are diverse opinions on this but my personal preference is not to talk about salary at the interview. You could answer the question this way “My Martin, I would like to focus on talking about why my background and skills make me the best candidate for this position. I am sure when you are ready to offer me the position, we can agree on a reasonable amount”.

8. If You Were an Animal, Which One Would You Want to Be? Or Who is Your Favorite Politician? and similar Questions

Interviewers use these types of psychological questions to see if you can think quickly. They also want to assess the type of personality that you will bring to the job. Before you answer questions like this, ask yourself what type of personality that would be successful in this position. Whatever the question is, animal or politician, let your answer create this impression that you want to give.

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Network Your Way To Your Next Job

by: Connie Thanasoulis-Cerrachio

Networking is the buzz word for the 21st Century, yet few do it properly. Networking isn’t about asking for something. Instead, networking is about establishing a long-term, mutually beneficial relationship of give and take with the emphasis on the give!

Networking is about being authentically interested in finding out about a person and honestly wanting to know them well enough to positively affect their business, their lives, and their interests. We network for things now that we want 2, 4, 6, and 12 months from now. And remember that the more you give to a person, the better they’ll think of you and the more they’ll open their network to you.

And what does that mean exactly? Well … everyone knows roughly about 250 people, and if we impress someone to the point where they “know and like” us, they will probably open their network of 250 up to us. So if I network well with one person, I’ll have access to 500 people (my 250, plus their 250). If I network well with 5 people, I’ll have access to 1,250 people. Network well with 10 people that means 2,500 people, and so on, and so on. It’s a powerful concept especially when you are searing for a job.

Here are 5 tips on how to network effectively, even when you are feeling awkward and nervous.

Tip #1: If you are really nervous about approaching someone, don’t approach them just yet. Observe and watch others in the room. See how they do it and read their body language. Are they establishing good eye contact, but not staring people down?! Are they shaking hands and smiling at the same time? Learning from masters is a great first step and I recommend reading Vault’s Guide to Schmoozing where you can learn about the greatest networkers of all time.

Tip #2: Ask open ended questions like how did they get into the business they are in, or what was their best day in that business? Keep it positive but allow them to do the talking! LISTEN to the responses of these questions and you’ll be on your way to creating that long term mutually beneficial relationship. It must be authentic as well … you can’t act like you are interested or it will surely fail. Another great networking question would be to ask what advice they could give to you at this point in your career. Again – the trick is to NOT ask for a job.

Tip #3: Have thick skin. If someone doesn’t get back to you, do not take it personally. Continue to network with them by sending them articles that may be of interest to them (if you let them talk enough, you’ll find out what they are interested in), send them a holiday card, send them an article about their company, their industry, about themselves if they are in the news.

Tip #4: Create a LinkedIn account, and start to include everyone you know. This should include present and past co-workers, people you went to school with, people you play sports with, people from your place of worship. In fact, as an exercise, you should create a list of at least 100 people you know, and attempt to connect with them via LinkedIn.

Tip #5: Ramp up activities during prime networking seasons/events like the holidays and summertime BBQs. Get out there and act like things are going well because positive attracts positive and negativity repels.

These five tips will definitely get you solidly on your way towards networking more and being more comfortable while doing so. And I’ll throw in a Tip #6: Keep a calendar and proactively network with people every single day because they more you network, the easier it will become. The world couldn’t turn and business couldn’t be done without networking, yet you’ll not find one networking class in a college or university. Remember to not ask for something. That will make people run in the opposite direction. Networking is about creating a long-term, mutually beneficial relationship of give and take, with the emphasis on the give!

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