Why S/he Is Not All That Into You

You tried every trick your Mom taught you. You’ve practiced every skill you learnt from your room-mates in college but this girl is not budging. The guy doesn’t just seem to notice you. Well, before you take it personal, you may have to read a new scientific discovery that may be responsible for your situation.

Scientists have identified a chemical in the brain that controls sexual preference in mice. The chemical is called Serotonin. Researchers in China report that Male mice bred without serotonin lose their preference for females.

Serotonin belongs to a group of compounds called neurotransmitters, which are chemical substances that carry impulses from one nerve cell to another. It is the first time a neurotransmitter has been credited with playing a role in sexual preference in mammals, the scientists claim. The report is available in the Journal Nature.

Now Summary of the experiments:

The scientist bred male mice whose brains were not receptive to serotonin. They also had control mice that were not modified and have the brains receptive to serotonin.

They conducted a series of experiments on the two group of mice. The results undeniably showed that the first group had lost the preference for females shown by unmodified males.

When presented with a choice of partners, they could not show any preference for either males or females.

In fact the modified males were as ready to mount on the fellow males and mate with them as they do to female mice. When serotonin was later injected into the brain of mice which lacked the tryptonphan hydroxylase-2 gene (a gene needed to produce serotonin), their preference for the girl mice was restored. They were now chasing and working hard to mount on the females and mate with them.

You’ve tried the valentine day teddy bear thing, the birth card with red arrows, and the invitation to youth program at church but none of these worked. But you think you’re hot and, in fact, people say you’re hot. It may be a good idea not to take it personal but attribute it to the lack of Serotonin in his or her brain. Doesn’t that make you feel good?

Disclaimer: This is a high level scientific discovery but I have tried to simplify the report for your comprehension. Please note that there are dangers in drawing conclusions about human sexuality from such a study. It is provided for your information only.
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It might be love


From where I come, falling in love it tough. In fact, in most cases, you don’t even know you have fallen in love. It’s different where I live now. It is easy to love in love at the grocery checkout or gas station.

Celebrities are infamous for falling in at incredible speed, and falling out even quicker. There is a saying in my local language that translates into, “haste makes waste”. It means literally what you read.

I’ve cannot recall most of the high profile celebrities in Africa so permit me to use examples from where I live. Any way, readers from Nigeria, Ghana, Tanzania and other African countries perhaps know these people more than I do.

Rihanna and Chris Brown, Madonna and Guy Ritchie,Jon and Kate Gosselin, Jessica Simpson and Tony Romo, Tiger Woods, Bristol Plain and Levi Johnson, Antwaun Cook, Christina Milian, Fantasia, Antwaun Cook, Amber Rose and even Kanye West. What is that is common with all these folks. These are singers, actors and actresses, and athletes. The one thing that unites all of them is that they knew how to fall in and fall out of love quickly.

Well, the truth is, it is not a celebrity phenomenon. All of us do run into it. Some of us are lucky we aren’t significant enough to have our stories on the cover of the National Enquirer. When that kind of feeling is so fresh and ‘feely’, attempting to apply algebra to the situation is just nonsense. There is what feels right, and then what is right, but when you’re in that ‘feely’ mode, what feels right always wins.

So how to you know you or someone is falling in love too quickly?

Below are some red lights:

1. Everyone is telling you that you are moving way too fast.

If your close friends or family — the people who know you best — think you’re rushing into things, they just may be on to something. Listen to the people you trust the most; they have your best interest in mind.

2. You fell in love over a vacation.

You were all in your best moods, you had the trendiest attire, and just perfect in all sense. Hei, the time the two of you spent together was extraordinary. But remember that ‘that feely’ feeling is usually transient.


3. You don’t know each other’s full name.

If you’re like that friend of mine who could not pronounce at the fiancée full name during the wedding rehearsal, you’re surely running too quickly. That is probably fine if you’re looking for a room-mate, but for lifetime partner? I’m afraid you are just too fast. I’ve got to go to bed now but feel free to add some more red lights in the comment form. Others will surely benefit from your wisdom

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